"It's hard to give the best version of yourself when you are in a constant state of exhaustion, sleep deprivation and doubt. Questions rise about who you are, how you’re using your time, and whether you are doing a good job at raising your child and being a good role model."
At some point, however, I realized I could not live in that state of insanity. I wanted not to just endure this new life transition, but also bring out a better version of myself. This required a mindset change, from one of fear and scarcity to confidence and abundance.
So began a journey inward that took me places I seldom considered. I quickly realized a new bud had sprouted in my life bouquet. It was not a competing priority but another opportunity to blossom.
That transformational journey birthed more than Motherhood in my life. There was also a first book that share my story and provide practical lessons for any working mom struggling to blossom.
You Can Have It All: A Working Mom’s Guide is a vulnerable portrayal of my journey from those feelings of defeat to living a balanced, assertive life. It is a thoughtful journey to discovering the “Power of the Petals” in which you too can design your best life and rediscover your true self.
Amazon Book Reviews
I see so many women struggle with work-life balance and feel like they are constantly having to choose between family and their business. This book is a great resource for working moms... offers practical advice and shares valuable skills that ensure women remain relevant and valued in the workplace.
- DAWN H.
Rosemary’s story is so relatable for every moms working and trying to balance everything - work, family and sense of Self. Her lessons definitely can teach all moms how we can handle “life” with so much grace and compassion.
- kellie s.
This is a genuine, honest story of how hard juggling work, children and LIFE can be. We all need a reminder to be kind to ourselves and realistic in setting our own expectations and standards. Buy this book for every busy woman you know!! It is an easy, quick read with true wisdom in the pages. Rosemary is honest and insightful!
- ANONYMOUS
5 Petals of Power
Boundaries
What are boundaries? How do we know they've been compromised? The negative impact of not setting boundaries makes it difficult for any person, much less a working mother. It's time to define and set your boundaries.
Communication
You've created boundaries but are you communicating them...effectively? There are techniques to ensure you are delivering what it is you exactly require to function at your best. The key is to work on communicating your needs in such a way they can be heard.
Ask for Help
Generally women are less inclined to ask for help especially in the workplace for fear of appearing weak or less than. Asking for help is not a weakness. It is a strength. You need to not just understand this but truly embrace how asking for help, helps not just you.
Help Others
The greatest way to get yourself looking at your life objectively, is to place yourself in others' shoes. Helping others can give you a new perspective and appreciation for the things and people you have in your life. More importantly, you in return fill your cup.
Find Your Spark
In order to be the best version of yourself you have to take time explore your own passions and desires. What excites you? What makes you feel challenged and stretches your comfort zone? You need to be able to bring joy into your life and that requires a spark!
The purple crocus is often associated with the arrival of spring and is seen as a symbol of renewal and hope. Additionally, the crocus is known for its resilience and ability to bloom in difficult conditions, making it a symbol of hope and perseverance in love.
6 Weeks to Sanity
From the book, came the desire to help others and so I am creating an accompaniment full course to You Can Have It All: A Working Mom’s Guide called 6 Weeks to Sanity which will includes a practical workbook. The full course will be live very soon so make sure you…
Here’s how it works…
Look, working moms are busy so when they take precious time to dedicate to their well being I want to respect that.
The courses I have prepared are meant to be simple yet effective. They are virtual and self-paced in a daily work format. There will be a workbook or handouts to complement each daily lesson. Don’t worry! They are meant to guide you through the daily asks.
From one working mom to another, you CAN do this!
A Self-Paced Virtual Course
With access to Kajabi, you will find a self-directed and self-paced virtual 6 week course. Schedule and go at your comfortable pace. You will be granted unlimited viewing access only to replay videos as needed.
Daily Handout Sheets
The greatest way to get yourself looking at your life objectively, is to place yourself in others' shoes. Helping others can give you a new perspective and appreciation for the things and people you have in your life. More importantly, you in return fill your cup.
Community of Working Moms
There is great comfort knowing there are others familiar and relatable to you. During the course, you will have the opportunity to engage with others taking it using the comments section of the modules. I also invite you to follow me on Social Media for further engagement.
Start the journey today…
While you wait for the full 6-week course, I want to give you a head start. So, I created #6DaysToSanity, a mini course preview to the #6WeeksToSanity. It will give you the mindset you need for a transformative experience. We will take the lessons you gather from the book and review the 5 Petals of Power that serve as a foundation to a successful life, on your terms.
Consider the 3 opportunities I offer - reading the book, taking the 6-day mini course and later, the full 6 week course, as the complete toolkit you to achieving Success AND Sanity!
Take 3 steps towards finding you again and YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL.
Dear Working Moms,
Thank you for your interest in my story. Truth be told, all that I am achieving is not done on my own. I am fortunate to have a support system of family, friends and colleagues.. It took time for me to cultivate a sense of community and today, I am grateful for every single person to who I am connected. On this motherhood journey, I especially have learned how important a support system is. I also have learned not all working moms have what I have.
That is why I am passionate about building or talking part in a community of women helping other women. If you’re new to the idea of a support system,, start where you are comfortable and then embrace what enfolds. To begin, why not stay connected with me on social media.. I will continue to share my experiences and hope you’ll share yours too. You don’t have to go at this alone. Just click an option below.
“Building a village is something that Rosemary is keen on conveying. She offers her own journey as an example, with candid, concrete, and conscientious imagery to support her readers to navigate motherhood, work, love, and relationships. It was her recognition of the importance of community that led her to write this book, and it is evident she wants the reader to feel part of a community.“
SAMARA HAKIM, JD
President and Founder of CulturGrit, LLC
